Is it possible to love more than one person at the same time?
“Is true love just once in a lifetime?” as the famous song goes.
At a certain point of our life, We fall for someone whom we dream of spending the rest of our life with. Someone who understands us more than anyone else. One that you imagine of fixing you breakfast everyday. You welcome the thought of waking up each morning to find yourself sharing the same bed with that person.
But along the way we meet someone who makes us feel the same in a different way. Someone of opposite to the partner you already have. Two different people that make you feel the same way. Is it then safe to say that it is possible to love more than one person at a time? That true love isn’t once in a lifetime?
My answer would be yes.
It is possible to get attracted to someone else while you’re in a relationship. In fact, it’s natural. We’re just acting according to our nature. That nature in us doesn’t die just because we got married more so if we’re just in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
In ancient times and even now, to some people, being committed to more than one woman is not an issue so long as he can support her. But to most people sharing just ain’t in their dictionary.
If you’re one of those people who are in a relationship where there’s no room for another person then keep this in mind. Accept the fact that you and your partner would still get attracted to other people, which is but normal, but it’s up to you whether to nurture that feeling or not. If one of you found yourself attracted to someone else while in a relationship do not nurture that feeling and it will eventually die a natural death. Do not get yourself too involved with that person ’cause you might just end up liking them more. You have to draw the line somewhere, set your limitations.
” Sometimes I wish I had never met you. Because then I could go to sleep at night
not knowing there was someone like you out there. ” ~ Good Will Hunting
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